Thursday, June 30, 2011

Regrets? Failure?

Every human being has something to regret. Its the law of nature. IDEAL OR PERFECT behavior exists only in theory. Answers to the questions of WHAT? WHY? and HOW MUCH? decides the impact of the incident on the human life. For Mahathma Gandhi it was something as simple as stealing from a garden. For the average athmas its much more. It could vary from small-scale stealing, drug addictions, perversion and so on. It could be a single day or a phase of life. But it has definitely left a scar in the heart. The older you are, the greater the scars.

So, What's my point? Not to remind you of the worst phases of your life. But to help you move on. DONT Look behind. It is DEAD AND BURIED. IF you know you have been bad, be good now. Do good.

Never regret. If its good. its wonderful. If its bad, its an experience. A lesson learnt the hard way.

Live life in such a way that at the end of it YOU CAN PROUDLY SAY

"TO WHOMSOEVER IT MAY CONCERN"

"I've done things I wish I hadn't. However, I had stood up and done some things that I wish everybody should do."

Ya, that will feel much better. Don't dwell upon the past. Look out for the future. Every human being has a reason to die. However, there is a reason to live as well. Find that out and work on it. Its ok to have been bad. BUT IT IS NOT OK TO BE BAD. If you change, the world waits for you with open arms.




Tuesday, June 7, 2011

F.R.I.E.N.D.S

Ya. The two most important things in my life. The people and the play. First, we will look at the play.










F.R.I.E.N.D.S

Split into 10 seasons, this by far, is the best English series of our times. The characters have lived after their virtual deaths and the episodes have become immortal. I bet my life on the fact that there is no one who can stop watching this in the middle. Its a fact that some of the best depictions on the screen are the ones closest to reality. There are no CAN-DO-NOTHING-WRONG heroes, FELL-FROM-HEAVEN heroines, IMPOSSIBLE circumstances or MAN-AGAINST-ALIENS/ROBOTS/DISEASES. F.R.I.E.N.D.S is a masterpiece because of the fact that everyone of us can relate to the people and the incidents on the screen. They are careless, casual, non-chalant and funny.This series makes complete justice to the words "The best comedy arises from the deepest sorrows".

No story, No twist , No nonsense. F.R.I.E.N.D.S is a celebration of life, the exuberance of youth and the glory of friendship. Personally, F.R.I.E.N.D.S is the goto series when I am feeling happy or sad,ecstatic or hurt, betrayed or depressed, together with friends or alone.


FRIENDS





One of the most interesting human relationship. For it defies all logic. Gone are those days where Friends are those people who help you clear exams in school or college by lending their books. Thanks to single-child-syndrome, nuclear-family-systems, generation-gap, cellphones and social networks, Friendship is the MOST IMPORTANT part of human life, at least in terms of time. A Friend, in my point of view, can be explained as "Someone whom you can dare to be YOURSELF and can be sure that they will stick with you and love you, NO MATTER WHAT". How to identify good friends?? I can't say exactly. But here are few points from what I have seen and learnt for "Experience is always the best teacher."

1. It has to HAPPEN. Friendship is not formed, IT HAPPENS.
2. A friend should ACCEPT you as you are and not as someone he wants you to be.
3. Old cliches still hold good. A friend in need is a friend in deed.
4. A friend is someone with whom you can communicate in silence.
5. NO WORDS. Actions are the ultimate reflections of love.
6. A friend is like a magician who holds you on the knife edge, You stop trusting, you stop breathing.
7. A friend can be a part of the family, but can never replace it.
8. A friend for life is the one who messages you from the adjacent grave.

Friendship is actually the most confused relationship, for everyone can come under this category. Good friends are not someone who will help you go up the ladder. But they are the ones who will catch you when you fall and help you get up by giving their shoulder. I have been blessed with great friends. I am proud of each and every one of them. To all my friends, Wishing more night stays, rummy, cricket, carrom, unnecessary fights, hugs, and lots more. "Love you all".